Took a nice little trip this weekend. Lots of time in the car, lot of time when it was really just us. Great re-connecting. We didn't even have to be talking a lot of the time. Just knowing she was there, I could reach out and squeeze her hand or stroke her thigh. We both really needed this with all of the dynamic issues we had and the thoughts of if/when it could or would be started up again.
Just us. A couple having fun. No kids, no real demands. Sleep in, cuddle, watch TV (or not). Go for a wander in a wonderful city. Enjoy finds of good food, good drink, good smoke and some good kink. Our connectedness had improved over the last couple weeks, but it wasn't until the weekend was drawing to a close, and really some today, that we both (or I at least) realized how far it still hadn't. This weekend really brought that level up.
It was good to have a nice kinky demo with a relaxed atmosphere away from people who knew us (and thought they knew our kinks well). No expectations, no reputations to live up to. Just enjoying a great presentation, smiling, laughing and getting kinky with a group where many people had no ideas of experience levels or what they had ever done (or hadn't). And the demo. Rough play. MMM. There is nothing I find more enjoyable than some hands on rough play. Except maybe rope, but that is very hands on and intimate as well.
There is just something about feeling exactly how their body is responding under your slap, hold, punch, or poke. The minute adjustments, increases in frequency or force. Completely energized (and a bit frustrated...goddamn that was a lot of foreplay with a very long delay before consummation) and put us both in a very happy space.
Hopefully riding this wave for a good long while. :)
